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My Boyfriend’s Mother Hates Me

12 Sep

My boyfriend’s mother hates me. And we’ve only been dating less than three months. They had a fight this morning. She started going off about me. Probably about my weight. And how I’m probably encouraging him to gain weight. ‘Cause that’s what all fat people do, right?

I’m sorry if my weight offends you, Mrs. A, but it’s really none of your business. Neither is your 28-year-old son’s weight. At least, not when it’s just a little extra tummy weight.

I’ve struggled with food all my life. It’s not as easy-peasy for me as it was for you. Everyone’s different. Yes, my antidepressants have something to do with my problems. But y’know what? Without those, I’d have killed myself by now. By accident. I’d rather be fat than dead by my own hand. I dunno, those are my priorities. Maybe yours aren’t the same.

I’ve shown her nothing but respect, despite what I think of her. And I’ll continue to show her that. I’m writing this so that I don’t strangle her the next time I see her and she tries to start something. Which she probably will.

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Posted by on September 12, 2014 in Depression

 

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One response to “My Boyfriend’s Mother Hates Me

  1. lradams86

    September 12, 2014 at 7:12 pm

    I still cannot believe she tried to pull that card on me today, it really has made me frustrated that she goes off on everyone for issues she has no control over. Yes her life isn’t as glamorous as she wants it to be, but she has to understand I have my own life, and it isn’t hers either. My life is my own, and I like you for who you are inside and out & I always will.

     

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